Online dating is becoming much more difficult. Ten years ago, when I got started, it was only somewhat hard to have any success, but I had pretty good results. Hell, I even got married to someone I met on a dating site (that worked out well). Fast forward a decade and it is a disaster for men. It is getting harder year over year. Men not only get ignored much more than women, but there are also a lot of other pitfalls out there. There are plenty of women’s dating profiles that men should avoid if you want to keep your sanity and money.
It is hard enough to find a quality woman, even harder to find one that will be interested in you as well. No need wasting your time with poor matches from the get-go. Bots, fakes, desperate catfish, dead profiles and terrible women are just a few of the things that will waste a man’s time on a dating site. I am starting to get a keen eye on who and what to avoid on sites. Even if the woman is real, there are clues to weed out the wackos.
Little breadcrumbs will point out the fakes and the people who have no intention of finding someone. A keen eye will show the red flags on women’s dating profiles. Hopefully this post will help your dating site success, from identifying the OnlyFans.com girls to keeping the nuts far away. Below are red flags on a woman’s dating Profile for men to watch out for.
Red Flags on a Woman’s Dating Profile #1: Misleading Pictures
A picture is a picture, right? Not really, you may need to play Perry Mason on this one but the clues are there. First, does the picture match their body description, some women who say “about average” should read humongous. Nine times out of ten “curvy” or “average” really means fat, so be aware of this.
Secondly, you only get a face tilt head picture. This is another one of those red flags on a woman’s dating profile that is common. Why aren’t you showing me your body, is there a cheesecake in your lap? It is that high head tilt facing down picture that breeds distrust. Everyone wants to be shown in the best light, but some women are clearly hiding their body, because they like ice cream more than honesty.
Next, look at the progression of the pictures, some are clearly from 10 years ago. If in one picture she looks amazing and the others she doesn’t there is an issue. There was this one woman who had no sleeve tattoo in the first two pictures, but low and behold she had a huge one in the last two, that and about 15 years of aging.
Women’s Dating Profiles that Men should avoid #2: Missing or Incomplete Bio
No bio whatsoever usually screams scam to me. Why put yourself on a dating site only to not include information about yourself? In the past I have attempted to contact some of these women, with no luck. Not sure if they are looking for a particular target, but these are not real people.
The same warning could be said about an extremely short bio. A one word bio is another example of a woman’s dating profile to avoid. A lot of time it is the same canned message that is seen on a million different profile. Even if this woman is real, she seems like a lazy piece of garbage, so why bother with her. You are trying to find a connection with someone (or at least a nighttime connection) don’t be fooled by just a pretty face.
Women’s Dating Profiles Men Should Avoid #3: Too Good to Be True
I came across this amazing profile the other day. Well, the picture was amazing, the profile was an example of red flag number two. I knew this was a scam. Her age had her at about 45, the picture was of a 25-year -old. This was not just a “I am showing old pictures”. This was a scam. I am sure this same photo is on 100 different profiles. Another one I saw was a 48-year-old wearing nothing but a long T-shirt sitting like she was trying out for Playboy (before it had 500-pound women on the cover). She too was amazing, and she too was obviously fake. Not too long after they first appeared both profiles were gone.
They are just waiting for some lonely Simp to contact them, then the milking begins. If they start messaging you back immediatly or contact you first, keep your wits about you. I truly believe there are more bots than real women on these sites. You will know if you are being hustled as soon as the requests for cash start up. Scams prey on men who are overly foolish and eager.
Red Flags on a Woman’s Dating Profile #4: The Long-Winded Complainer
Nothing I love more than when the first sentence I read is a bitch fest of how all the men are terrible on dating sites. What is funny is most of these women won’t even reply to a normal guy, so I am not sure why they care. They will go on and on about all the bad experiences and ask “What is wrong with all the men on here”? Not sure if it is a desperate attempt to find some white knight to save them, but it is exhausting. If you want to blow your brains out after reading the first sentence of a bio, imagine how dating this person will feel.
In relation to the above is the girl who just lists the demands of the man she wants. How about you try to win me over before you start telling me what you need? It screams entitled. I have dated enough women who think they walk on water. Anyone who is bitching and moaning, telling you everything you must possess before the first conversation is a woman you should avoid.
Dating Profiles Men Should Avoid #5: Single Mommies with Issues
As I wrote here, I would be hard pressed to ever date a single mother again. A huge one of the red flags on a woman’s dating profiles is the lady who has the combination of “has kids” and “never married”. So, you got knocked up by a random and kept the baby. Or was it two (or three) guys that are probably not paying child support. That is damaged goods and I want no part of it.
I am a bit more forgiving of a person that lost their spouse, that is just a bad situation. If a woman initiated a divorce when she has kids, or worse was never married I am good. Already there is too much trouble. What is funny is even these women are also entitled. Too many guys line up to save them.
Another annoying woman is one who writes “I am a single mother and my kids come first”. Cool, next. I get it your kids should come first, but do I need to be told I am second fiddle the second I click on your profile? Women are not worth the trouble this brings, I don’t need to be reminded that I will always come last (but pay first).
Red Flags on Women’s Dating Profiles #6: Multiple Profiles
This is just sketchy to me, and I have seen it three times now. One woman had two separate profiles out there, but her name was spelled slightly different. It took some detective work, but I saw through the BS. What was funny is she was two different ages and other inconsistencies. Not sure what this person’s angle was, but already she was a proven liar.
If you see multiple profiles with different names/bios/facts etc. run. This is especially true if you are on multiple sites and the info from site to site doesn’t jive. At best this person is a liar, trying to rope you in. At worse they are throwing out sucker chum, waiting for you to gobble it up.
Red Flags on Women’s Dating Profiles #7: Not Paying for the Service
This is more like on Match.com than the free sites like bumble. Anyone who doesn’t pay for the service is wasting your time. They literally cannot reply to your message so why send something? Of course, there is a way for you to pay so they can reply to you… Fuck that, this is a two-way street.
Any woman who doesn’t pay for the service is too poor to date or isn’t serious about getting together with someone. A third option is they are so entitled that they feel you should pay extra just for them to respond back. I want none of the above, so I will pass.
Dating Profiles Men Should Avoid #8: Any Overly “Woke” Woman
I already wrote I don’t believe men should be liberals , but even if you are, you do not want a “woke” woman. Never have I met a man who is dating someone woke that looks happy. It is almost a given that they will be slumped over taking orders from a wretched human being that completely overestimates her own intelligence.
Values, more than interests, are important when evaluated compatibility. Most men I know do not share the values of liberals. These woke activists will make your life hell. They may be good if you are looking for a one-nighter, but then again you never know if you will find hair under their armpits and what STDs they might have. Most woke activists are plain crazy and treat men like an inferior species. They also don’t have their own Sh*t together while lecturing you.
How do you determine who these women are? They are glaringly obvious, first they make a point to say “No conservatives”, cool we are on the same page. They will make it clear they identify as liberal or super liberal. Look for buzz words like Vegan and feminist. A picture can also call out someone like this, one girl put herself holding up a picket sign at a protest, thanks for the clue. Really, no matter your political leaning, stay away from ultra-liberal women.
Conclusion
I can keep going, but like the old TV show said, 8 is enough for now. Dating sites aren’t making it easy on us men. Before you even get a date there are 100 minefields to avoid. Hopefully this post gave you some pointers on the red flags on women’s dating profiles for men to watch out for.